Life has a way of piling on its burdens. Responsibilities, expectations, and pressures can feel like a heavy load that we’re carrying alone. We push ourselves to keep going, to handle it all, but sometimes, we need to remember that it’s okay to put it down.
1. You Deserve to Rest
One of the hardest things to do is to give ourselves permission to rest. We often think that taking a break is a sign of weakness, but in reality, it’s a sign of strength. Rest isn’t just a luxury; it’s a necessity. When we allow ourselves to rest, we recharge our minds and bodies, giving ourselves the energy to face challenges with renewed strength.
“You don’t always have to be strong. Rest is part of the process of becoming the best version of yourself.”
2. Let Go of What You Can’t Control
We often carry burdens that aren’t ours to bear. Worrying about things we can’t control adds unnecessary weight to our lives. It’s important to recognise what we can change and what we can’t. By letting go of what’s out of our hands, we free ourselves from the stress and anxiety that comes with trying to control everything.
“You can’t control everything in life, but you can control how you respond. Let go of what you can’t change and focus on what you can.”
3. Prioritise Your Well-Being
When life gets too heavy, it’s essential to prioritise your well-being. This means saying no when you need to, setting boundaries, and making time for self-care. You’re not selfish for putting yourself first. In fact, you’re doing what’s necessary to ensure you can be there for others in the long run.
Ask yourself:
What can I put down today to make life feel lighter?
You don’t have to carry the world on your shoulders. It’s okay to put it down, to rest, and to take care of yourself. If you’re feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to start, counselling with me can help. Together, we can explore what’s weighing you down and find ways to lighten your load, so you can regain balance and peace in your life. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey. We all have moments when life feels too heavy, and it’s in these moments that we must be gentle with ourselves.
Gareth Taylor is an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist based in Kent, United Kingdom and offers in person and online therapy.
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