Counselling & Psychotherapy

Welcome. I’m Gareth and I offer online & in-person counselling, providing a safe, comforting and nurturing space to explore your thoughts, feelings and emotions.

Integrative Therapy

Whether online or in person counselling, as an experienced integrative counsellor, I believe in the power of blending different therapeutic approaches to suit your unique needs.

With a genuine warmth, empathy and soothing presence, I am here to guide you on your journey towards healing and personal growth.

Gareth Taylor

Gareth Taylor

Dip Couns MNCPS (Acc.)

I’m a qualified and experienced integrative counsellor and psychotherapist and I’m delighted you are here. My practice is located in Tenterden, Kent offering online and in person counselling.

I’m Here to Help

Issues I Commonly Work With

Navigating change with warmth and understanding

Here are some examples of various issues I can help with.

Managing Anxiety

Anxiety can feel overwhelming, like a constant sense of fear or worry that lingers in your mind and body. It can show up in different ways—racing thoughts, restlessness, or even physical symptoms like tension or a racing heart. Whether anxiety is tied to specific events or is a more general feeling, it affects how you experience the world around you.

Here’s how an integrative approach can help you manage and overcome anxiety:

 

1. Understanding the Root Cause

Anxiety often has deeper roots. In integrative counselling, we’ll work together to explore the underlying causes of your anxiety—whether it stems from past experiences, current pressures, or future fears. Understanding where your anxiety comes from is the first step in breaking its grip.

"Awareness brings light to the shadows of anxiety."

2. Finding Calm in the Present

Anxiety thrives on uncertainty and fear. In our sessions, we’ll create a safe space to help you manage your anxious thoughts and feelings. Through a tailored approach, we’ll explore coping techniques that empower you to calm your mind, so you can respond to life’s challenges with more clarity and balance.

"Peace begins when you learn to be present, even in the face of uncertainty."

3. Building Confidence for the Future

Anxiety can make the future feel daunting. Together, we’ll create a plan to help you navigate your fears and build confidence in your ability to handle whatever lies ahead. Integrative counselling helps you shape a future where anxiety no longer holds you back, allowing you to move forward with greater ease and strength.

Ask yourself:

"How would my life change if I could manage my anxiety with confidence?"

Integrative counselling offers a comprehensive approach to understanding, managing, and overcoming anxiety. By exploring your past, addressing the present, and preparing for the future, I’ll guide you toward a life where anxiety no longer defines your experiences.

 

 

Managing Depression

Depression can feel like a heavy weight that affects every part of your life—your energy, motivation, relationships, and even your sense of self. It may show up as persistent sadness, hopelessness, or a sense of numbness. Whether it's triggered by life events or has been lingering for a long time, depression can feel isolating, but you don’t have to face it alone.

Here’s how an integrative approach can help you manage and overcome depression:

 

1. Exploring the Roots of Your Depression

Depression often has deep emotional and psychological roots. In integrative counselling, we’ll work together to explore the underlying causes of your depression, whether it’s tied to past trauma, unresolved grief, or ongoing stress. By understanding where your depression comes from, we can begin to unravel the weight it has on your life.

 

2. Finding Relief in the Present

Depression can make it difficult to see beyond the present moment. Our sessions will provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can express your feelings and struggles. Through a tailored approach, we’ll develop practical coping strategies to help you manage the overwhelming emotions, allowing you to find relief and start feeling more in control of your life.

 

3. Rebuilding Hope for the Future

Depression can make the future seem bleak, but with the right support, you can rebuild hope and a sense of purpose. Together, we’ll focus on creating a path that feels meaningful and aligned with your true self. You’ll gain the tools and confidence to overcome the darkness and move forward into a life that feels more fulfilling and hopeful.

Ask yourself:

"How would my life change if I could break free from the hold of depression?"

I offer a compassionate, personalised support for those dealing with depression. By exploring the past, finding balance in the present, and building hope for the future, I’ll help you navigate through depression and create a life filled with light, purpose, and possibility.

 

Understanding Trauma

Trauma can leave a lasting impact, affecting how you see the world and interact with it. Whether it stems from a single event or a series of difficult experiences, trauma—such as PTSD—can cause intense emotional responses, flashbacks, anxiety, and a sense of disconnection. It can feel overwhelming, but healing is possible.

Here’s how an integrative approach can help you heal from trauma:

 

1. Acknowledging the Impact of the Past

Trauma can deeply affect how you experience life in the present. In integrative counselling, we’ll work together to explore the events that have shaped your trauma, understanding how they still influence your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. Acknowledging and processing these experiences is the first step in reclaiming your life.

 

2. Finding Safety in the Present

After trauma, feeling safe can be a challenge. Our sessions will create a space where you can process your emotions without judgment or fear. Through a tailored approach, we’ll focus on grounding techniques and coping strategies to help you regain control and find peace in your day-to-day life.

 

3. Rebuilding Your Future

Trauma can make the future seem uncertain, but it doesn’t have to define you. Together, we’ll work on building resilience, addressing fears, and empowering you to take steps toward a future where you feel stronger and more confident. Healing from trauma opens up new possibilities for growth and a life filled with hope.

Ask yourself:

"How would my life change if I could let go of the trauma that’s holding me back?"

Integrative counselling offers a compassionate, personalized path to healing from trauma. By understanding your past, finding safety in the present, and building strength for the future, I’ll support you in overcoming trauma and living a life where peace and joy are possible once again.

Understanding Relationships

Relationships are central to our lives, but they can also bring complex emotions, misunderstandings, and challenges. Whether you're dealing with conflict, communication issues, or the emotional toll of a breakup, relationship struggles can affect your wellbeing and happiness. These difficulties might leave you feeling disconnected or uncertain about the future.

Here’s how an integrative approach can help you navigate and heal relationship challenges:

1. Exploring the Past

Past experiences often shape how we engage in relationships. In integrative counselling, we’ll look at your past to understand patterns that might be affecting your current relationships. Whether it's unresolved wounds or unhelpful habits, understanding these patterns is the first step toward creating healthier connections.

"To heal your relationships, you must first understand yourself."

2. Improving Communication in the Present

Strong relationships require open, honest communication. Our sessions will provide a safe space to explore your current relationship dynamics and find better ways to express your feelings and needs. Through a tailored approach, we’ll develop practical tools to improve your interactions and bring clarity and peace into your relationships.

"Real connection comes when we learn to listen, not just speak."

3. Building a Better Future

Relationship challenges can make the future feel uncertain, but they also offer opportunities for growth. Through integrative counselling, we’ll work together to help you build stronger, healthier relationships—whether it’s repairing a current connection or preparing for future ones. With the right support, you can move forward with greater confidence and a deeper sense of fulfillment.

Ask yourself:

"What would my relationships look like if I could communicate more clearly and connect more deeply?"

Integrative counselling offers a personalized approach to navigating relationship challenges. By understanding your past, enhancing communication in the present, and building confidence for the future, I’ll help you create stronger, more fulfilling relationships in every area of your life.

 

Understanding Self-Esteem and Confidence

Low self-esteem and a lack of confidence can hold you back from living fully. Whether it stems from past criticism, self-doubt, or comparing yourself to others, these feelings can impact every area of your life—your relationships, career, and overall sense of happiness. But with the right support, you can learn to value yourself and build the confidence to thrive.

Here’s how an integrative approach can help you improve self-esteem and boost confidence:

 

1. Uncovering the Roots of Self-Doubt

Low self-esteem often comes from past experiences that have shaped how you see yourself. In integrative counselling, we’ll explore where your self-doubt began, helping you understand the events or messages that may have led you to question your worth. This awareness is the first step to breaking free from self-limiting beliefs.

 

2. Reframing Your Self-Perception

Changing how you see yourself starts in the present. Our sessions will provide a safe space to explore your strengths and challenge negative self-talk. Through a tailored approach, we’ll work on shifting your mindset, helping you see your true worth and build a healthier relationship with yourself.

 

3. Empowering Your Future

With stronger self-esteem, you’ll feel empowered to take on new challenges and opportunities. Together, we’ll create a plan to help you build the confidence to go after your goals, trust in your abilities, and shape a future where you feel truly capable and worthy of success.

Ask yourself:

"How would my life change if I truly believed in myself?"

Integrative counselling offers a personalised path to improving self-esteem and confidence. By exploring your past, reshaping how you see yourself in the present, and empowering you for the future, I’ll support you in building a life filled with self-assurance and a sense of true inner worth.

Coping With Grief and Loss

Grief and loss can touch every part of our lives. Whether it's the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or even a significant life change, these experiences leave a lasting impact. Grief isn't just an emotional response; it can affect your mind, body, and spirit. You may feel overwhelmed, lost, or uncertain about how to move forward.

Here’s how an integrative approach can help you heal through grief and loss:

 

1. Acknowledging Your Loss

Grieving is a personal journey. In integrative counselling, we take the time to explore your feelings, honour your loss, and understand how it’s impacting you today. Recognising and accepting your grief is the first step toward healing.

 

2. Finding Peace in the Present

Loss can leave us feeling stuck. Our sessions focus on creating a safe space where you can process your emotions, and we work together to help you navigate the present moment with more balance and understanding. This tailored approach meets you where you are and helps you find the peace you need to move forward.

 

3. Rebuilding for the Future

Though the future might feel uncertain after loss, it holds new possibilities. Through integrative counselling, we’ll explore your hopes, address fears, and create a path that empowers you to rebuild your life at your own pace. You don’t have to navigate grief alone; together, we’ll shape a future where healing and hope are possible.

Ask yourself:

"How will healing my grief help me live a fuller, more meaningful life?"

Integrative counselling offers compassionate, personalized support through grief, helping you understand your loss, find clarity in the present, and build a future with renewed strength and purpose.

Managing Stress

Stress can feel overwhelming, like you're constantly juggling too many things at once. Whether it’s caused by work, relationships, or the pressure of daily life, stress affects your mind, body, and overall sense of wellbeing. It can leave you feeling tense, drained, and disconnected from what truly matters. But with the right support, you can learn to manage stress and regain control.

Here’s how an integrative approach can help you manage and reduce stress:

 

1. Identifying the Sources of Your Stress

Stress often builds up from different areas of life. In integrative counselling, we’ll work together to uncover the root causes of your stress, whether they’re related to work pressures, personal relationships, or internal expectations. Understanding where your stress comes from is the first step in reducing its impact.

 

2. Finding Balance in the Present

Stress pulls you out of balance and affects your ability to be present. Our sessions will create a space for you to express your worries and tensions, and through a tailored approach, we’ll develop effective stress management techniques. These tools will help you stay grounded and calm, even in the face of life’s demands.

 

3. Building Resilience for the Future

Managing stress is about more than short-term relief—it’s about building long-term resilience. Together, we’ll work on strategies that help you respond to future challenges with confidence and calm. You’ll develop a greater sense of control, enabling you to handle whatever life throws your way, without feeling overwhelmed.

Ask yourself:

"What would my life look like if I could handle stress with greater ease and clarity?"

Integrative counselling offers a personalised approach to managing stress. By identifying your stressors, finding balance in the present, and building resilience for the future, I’ll help you regain control and create a life where stress no longer takes over.

Managing Life Transitions

Life transitions—whether planned or unexpected—can bring about a mix of emotions, from excitement and hope to fear and uncertainty. Whether you're starting a new job, ending a relationship, moving to a new place, or facing a major life change, these transitions can leave you feeling ungrounded and unsure of what’s next. But with the right support, you can navigate them with clarity and confidence.

Here’s how an integrative approach can help you through life transitions:

 

1. Reflecting on What’s Changing

Every life transition involves letting go of something familiar. In integrative counselling, we’ll explore what’s changing in your life and how it’s affecting you emotionally and mentally. By reflecting on your past experiences, we’ll help you better understand how you handle change and what may be holding you back from embracing new possibilities.

 

2. Navigating Uncertainty in the Present

Transitions often come with uncertainty and stress. Our sessions will provide a safe space to help you process these feelings and develop coping strategies. Through a tailored approach, we’ll work on finding balance in the present, helping you stay grounded and confident as you move through the changes in your life.

 

3. Shaping Your Future

Life transitions open up new paths, and with the right mindset, they can be opportunities for growth. Together, we’ll focus on your goals and aspirations, helping you create a plan that aligns with your vision for the future. You’ll build the confidence to embrace change and step into this new chapter with purpose and strength.

Ask yourself:

"How can this transition lead me toward the life I truly want?"

Integrative counselling offers personalised support through life transitions. By reflecting on your past, managing the present, and planning for the future, I’ll help you navigate change with clarity and confidence, ensuring that you step into your next chapter feeling empowered and prepared.

My Approach & Philosophy

Healing and growth are at the heart of what I do.

 

I provide therapy sessions in various formats to accommodate your needs. Whether you prefer in person sessions in Tenterden, Kent, online sessions, or telephone sessions, I offer flexibility.

You’re in safe hands.

 

During our sessions, you can expect to be heard, understood, and supported without judgment. I strongly believe in the power of empathy and its profound impact on the therapeutic process. By fostering a compassionate and non-judgmental environment, my aim is to help you gain insight, clarity, and a deeper understanding of yourself.

As an integrative counsellor, I adeptly blend a range of approaches and techniques to tailor our sessions to your specific needs. To learn more about the modalities I offer, please explore further on this website.

Furthermore, I am a registered member of The National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS), and I adhere to their Code of Ethical Practice.

For additional information on this, please
visit nationalcounsellingsociety.org.

Get In Touch

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Call

07957 346583

Email

info@garethtaylorcounselling.com

Hours

Mon - Wed: 8am - 8pm